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Friday, October 26, 2018

Sirwels

Talk To Me Friday-- The Rape Shout....

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Date: Thu, Oct 25, 2018, 10:43 AM
Subject: Talk to me Friday
To: <talk2wels@gmail.com>

Actually  am sending on behalf of a friend.
The story goes like this
He said that there is this girl he has been dating for 4 year, That he has not had sex with the girl because she is always restricting herself to him & he is planning to propose to her, 

That he visited her at her state of residence last November, Just that he kissed her, The girl walked him out of her parents house & accused him of wanting only her body in the relationship, This is someone he has been dating ooo,

They reconciled last month, The girl invited him to her place, He went today, They were alone in her room, He tried to kiss her, The girl started shouting that he wants to rape her, He was embarrassed out of the house, The girl now sent him a message that he should never call her again in his miserable life, That he is only after her body, 
So if your in the guys shoes how will you react to this ?

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Anonymous
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October 26, 2018 at 11:31 AM delete

There is more to her reaction. Maybe she was abused in the past and she hasn't gotten over it.
The guy should try and have a deep conversation with her.

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Unknown
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October 26, 2018 at 11:36 AM delete

I totally agree with this. He should have been slower after the first instance. The story is still vague sha

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Sinem
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October 26, 2018 at 11:43 AM delete

He should move on with his life, The girl is not in love with him

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Unknown
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October 26, 2018 at 11:50 AM delete

i think the problem here is understanding and maturity , finally i think the relationship between the two is not well defined for them wether is romantic or just friendship simple .#HRC

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Unknown
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October 26, 2018 at 11:52 AM delete

The story ain't pretty much detailed but one can decipher paranoia from the girls actions. She may have been abused in the past, hence, the psychological trauma.
The best thing to do is get to her, make her believe you haven't come to hurt her and then discuss the issue with her. It's obviously beyond the ordinary.

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Unknown
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October 26, 2018 at 12:10 PM delete

The situation is confusing, maybe the girlie in question have faced sexual exploitation or is just scared...well a conversation between the parties will suffice.. A heart to heart conversation

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cheryl
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October 26, 2018 at 12:15 PM delete

the girl must have undergone a psychological trauma which has affected her sense of reasoning into thinking a little romance with her guy means he's after her body.
she has to change that or she keeps having more challenges in her relationship.

the best thing the guy will have to do is to see a counselor with her so that if he cant listen to the guy, someone else can be able to give a solution to her fears

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October 26, 2018 at 12:33 PM delete

Am I the only one that feels like the Narrator is not telling us everything...

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Anonymous
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October 26, 2018 at 6:10 PM delete

Sirwels..tell them to send detailed story to help us understand the situation well

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Pruddy
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October 26, 2018 at 6:19 PM delete

Well I think something similar to that must have happened to her before, prolly a rape case. Well buh they've been dating for 4yrs it's quite a long time she should come plain and tell him why she doesn't want the sex or even kisses at all... Kisses won't hurt even though she's a virgin

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