Actually am sending on behalf of a friend.
The story goes like this
He said that there is this girl he has been dating for 4 year, That he has not had sex with the girl because she is always restricting herself to him & he is planning to propose to her,
That he visited her at her state of residence last November, Just that he kissed her, The girl walked him out of her parents house & accused him of wanting only her body in the relationship, This is someone he has been dating ooo,
They reconciled last month, The girl invited him to her place, He went today, They were alone in her room, He tried to kiss her, The girl started shouting that he wants to rape her, He was embarrassed out of the house, The girl now sent him a message that he should never call her again in his miserable life, That he is only after her body,
So if your in the guys shoes how will you react to this ?
So if your in the guys shoes how will you react to this ?
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10 comments
Write commentsThere is more to her reaction. Maybe she was abused in the past and she hasn't gotten over it.
ReplyThe guy should try and have a deep conversation with her.
I totally agree with this. He should have been slower after the first instance. The story is still vague sha
ReplyHe should move on with his life, The girl is not in love with him
Replyi think the problem here is understanding and maturity , finally i think the relationship between the two is not well defined for them wether is romantic or just friendship simple .#HRC
ReplyThe story ain't pretty much detailed but one can decipher paranoia from the girls actions. She may have been abused in the past, hence, the psychological trauma.
ReplyThe best thing to do is get to her, make her believe you haven't come to hurt her and then discuss the issue with her. It's obviously beyond the ordinary.
The situation is confusing, maybe the girlie in question have faced sexual exploitation or is just scared...well a conversation between the parties will suffice.. A heart to heart conversation
Replythe girl must have undergone a psychological trauma which has affected her sense of reasoning into thinking a little romance with her guy means he's after her body.
Replyshe has to change that or she keeps having more challenges in her relationship.
the best thing the guy will have to do is to see a counselor with her so that if he cant listen to the guy, someone else can be able to give a solution to her fears
Am I the only one that feels like the Narrator is not telling us everything...
ReplySirwels..tell them to send detailed story to help us understand the situation well
ReplyWell I think something similar to that must have happened to her before, prolly a rape case. Well buh they've been dating for 4yrs it's quite a long time she should come plain and tell him why she doesn't want the sex or even kisses at all... Kisses won't hurt even though she's a virgin
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